Visit to Vibez Adult Boutique, Aylesford, Maidstone

 I have been meaning to write this for some time, since last year in fact!

I have a few sex / adult stores near me, but by far the best is Vibez Adult Boutique in Aylesford, Maidstone, kent. (Directions)

Not just because of the amazing, constantly updated, type and variety of toys (Dildo's, butt plugs, gapers, bondage, vibrators, anal depth trainers and more) for beginners and experienced (i.e. sluts like me) users, from the small to the massive. as well as lingerie, fetish wear, role play / dress up, shoes and of course the all important lubes, condoms, poppers etc. On top of all this, and a major reason why I love this store and go back as often as I can (I could spend my annual salary there is so much to chose from that I want), is the amazing staff - they are always so welcoming, so helpful and non judegmental.

When I first went I was a shy newbie, in man mode after work, but with the confidence they have given me to be more 'me' I now visit in full fem clothes from high heels / boots, skirts n tops & bodysuits with my DD breastforms proudly on display (as is my bra quite often too LoL. And I styill feel comfortable, relaxed and happy to browse.

They also have a changing room, with wonderful mirrors and a ring light (they know we like to take changing room pics hehe).

I will be going back soon, I need to get some new poppers (On my last visit I was given a recommendation for my first ever poppers) and noew need more, and maybe a new version to try) as well as a travel lube bottle to replace one I have lost. I am sure I will be browsing toys, lingerie and clothes as well - trying to resit whilst being so tempted!

should UK sex shops be more like US / European stores?

If you follow any of my social media profiles, you will know that I live my local adult/sex store (Vibez Adult Boutique) and could spend so much time, and even more money, buying some of there wonderful sex toys, outfits and lingerie.

But, and thus is in no way a criticism of them or other UK based sex / adult stores, reading some articles, blogs and posts about those in the US and mainland Europe, they offer much more in the way of personal / intimate services.

From glory hole booths, porn film viewing and even rooms for sex. In many customers can be semi or completely nude, posing and playing with themselves and toys in full view of anyone and everyone that wants to look or watch.

Now, I am not saying we should open them up as seedy sex arena's, but the booths and being able to pose in some of their products / outfits or even your own does sound fun

I would happily visit the booths n give oral relief through the glory holes, with or without porn. And, it is no secret, that I would love to pose in the store for photo's, in and amongst the displays, over the counter, on my knees... you get the picture lol In my own lingerie or clothes, or in some i had or would purchase, or again I would be happy to pose with and using some of the sex toys, lingerie, bdsm or outfits for them to use as promo material on their website n socials (discrete of course). But we aren't allowed- our laws don't allow a legal seller of butt plugs, for example, to show prospective purchasers HOW they are meant to be used. We all know of friends or followers that are to shy and so innocent that they would need guidance and instructions, some of us were/are or would be just as unknowing about some items that you can buy inshore or online. By showing them it would increase sales and I would imagine make things safer for users - not having to rely on Google searches and videos that may not be accurate or safe to copy!

Just a thought, and personal opinion. Many adult stores may not agree with or want to do these type of things, or others, but should they have the option? 

Such a thrill, going out to Adult Store dressed fem n gurly

If you have read my previous blog, on the latest and wonderful addition to my anal toy collection, you will know that last Thursday, 05th December 2019, i visited my favorite Adult Sex Shop - Vibez Adult Boutique store, originally intending just to buy some delay / numbing spray for my butthole. But, more importantly I had shared on my twitter feed the night before that i wanted to go dressed fem n gurly, with pics of options that i was considering - heeled ankle boots (that make a magnificent sound as you walk in them), female low rise hipster jeans, some sexy lace panties (of course) and a choice of grey or peach / pastel orange top, with / without bra n whether to also have my DD fake boobies in as well.

So the evening of the 5th arrived, and on the way home from work i stopped at a relatively discrete place - in the entrance gate to a field but it was clearly visible from the adjacent M20, even more so as there was a street light opposite where i stopped. Here i stripped out of a boring suit n tie, slipped on the hipster jeans and ankle boots and i went for the grey t shirt, a bit less fem but more see through, but no bra or boobies (which i soon regretted!). So dressed i got out of the car to wiggle my ass in the jeans and get them nice n low, after all why wear lace panties of not to show them off, and put man clothes in the back of the car. I then headed off towards Aylesford and Vibez - btw it feels so good driving in these boots with their heel, not ready to drive in stiletto heels yet.

Upon arriving at Vibez, i did have a few nerves as there were several cars in the spaces and didn't want to be ridiculed, slipping a fleece on as comfort blanket. Anyway, i headed in, heels clicking loudly on the concrete outside then store floor. And it felt fantastic.

As i entered i was immediately greeted by the son of the owners, who are always so welcoming and put you at ease. We chatted for a while, and as we did so i could hear a man/women couple browsing behind me and they could clearly see my boots and panties, if not knowing the jeans were female ones. I was loving it! After probably 5 mins chatting i started to browse, looking around and seeing some wonderful toys (one of which ended up in my hands later to buy n ride as soon as i could).

So, as i wandered around i got more n more confident and could feel my jeans riding low n panties high as i bent to look at products and walked around, admiring the toy selection, bondage gear and the  the dress up out fits, dresses and lingerie - oh my they have some yummy bra / pantie sets, panties, corsets n dresses with a new range coming 2020 too. I was feeling so good, the fleece came off and i proudly walked round as a gurly(ish) customer - getting told that next time i should come as fem as i wanted, boobs, wigs, skirt or whatever i wanted to wear!

I headed back to the 1st toys i had viewed, picked up the Destructor buttplug and some delay spray, heading to the till and paid as chatted about xmas n stuff.

As i left i put my purchases in the car and had to take some photos, as proof, and to share - here they are.

I felt so exhilarated, such a rush and release and so relaxed, confident and happy. smiling as i drove home, still dressed female x x

  

  

    

Vibez Luxury Water Based Lube - what an excellent product (product review)

I haven't posted anything in ages, let alone a product review - i started doing reviews of my adult sex toys and this is the next in the line.

I recently got a tube of Vibez Luxury Water Based Lube from my local Adult Store - Vibez Adult Boutique, and have used it on several occasions, with various types and sizes of toys - if you follow me on Twitter you will have seen some of them, and that i use a selection of lubes depending on my mood / toys or sometimes just how i feel that day!

It comes in a 100ml Tube, making it ideal for travel and carrying to events and anywhere you may need it, or think you may!

As to the lube itself, it is thick, not sticky and yet slick n slippery.

When squeezed out of the tube, it is a thick gel, which is great as it doesn't run the toys / body areas before you get a chance to spread it around, meaning you waste less! It spreads easily, giving a nice coating to required areas, without making everything sticky, including your fingers - and doesn't taste as bad as other lubes either if you suck your fingers clean, lick it off a toy or body part - i have tasted  it from dildo's, fingers, cocks and butt holes and not found it ruining the taste of anything.

Once spread out, it gives an amazing slippery ride and superb sensations, Being slippery, but not sticky, it gives a gliding and enjoyable ride and lasts for a long time, i have used it for hours and only needed small re-applications when i have added bigger toys during long play sessions, and these often last for several hours and involve anything from  5 - 15 toys, sometimes more. If it does dry out, or you go back to a previously used to after a while, a small amount of spit / few drops of water rubbed in and it slicks back up n away you can go again - even on your ass or cock.

After a recent ride, my butt hole was still slippery and slicked up inside the following day, and i was soon wet n able to take big toys by spitting on my fingers and rubbing my butt hole - reactivating the lube without adding more.  (i do need to add here that i am a regular and (semi) experienced user of toys so my ass does open easier than a novice or sporadic user would experience). I can't say how well it works with Vagina's, as i am definitely not a pussy user, but i can give my opinion on anal use.

Over all, i highly recommend this lube, and will be using it on many occasions

 

Shots Rich R6 Gold Buttplug with Clear Sapphire Jewel

My 1st ever Adult / Sex Toy Review.

If you follow me on twitter, you will know that I recently purchased a new Butt plug, my 1st from the Shots Rich range. The Golden Rich R6 butt plug.

It was purchased as an addition to my existing selection of plugs, as I loved the look and weight of it when I saw it in the Vibez Adult Store Boutique.

I didn't get to try it till a week or so after I purchased it, but once I had - OMG did I wish I had used it before then.

Just looking at the plug, its shining golden colour, smooth and perfect, instantly indicates a quality product, and the reassuring weight in your hand signals many pleasures to come.

The plug has a wide, deep base, ensuring a good fit and hold when inserted into your butthole, stopping it slipping out or too far in!. The width adds to the weight and pull on your anal ring whilst also spreading your butt cheeks to let the clear Sapphire style jewel in its base sparkle in the light. the Rich logo (backwards R) is printed onto the side of the base.

Above the base is a thick stem, approx. 20mm in width and 15mm deep - giving a good fit to your anal ring, keeping it tightly embedded inside you - just as well with its impressive 280g weight.

From base of the stem to the point of the plug it measures 114, insertable length, ensuring plenty of pleasure and a wonderful full feeling. Starting at 18mm wide for the rounded tip, giving a smooth easy entrance into your butt, widening to 43mm at its widest point, before gently and smoothly narrowing to the neck.

Enough about its specification.

Onto the important bit - the pleasure n fun factor.

The plug slipped easily into my ass, depending on how excited / used to butt plugs you are you may need some lube, with just a thin coating of spittle as lubricant, and as I slid it into me I couldn't help but moan with pleasure. The way it opened my butthole felt incredible, and the 'pop' as my ring closed around the neck signalled the next wave of pleasure. I was kneeling down and the plug felt amazing, filling my ass, and even before I stood the weight was pulling on my butthole, giving me wonderful sensations as I moved. As I stood, and the full 280g (11.71oz according to the official site) I had to moan again. I can highly recommend this toy, my ass felt amazing as I moved, with the ever present weight on my butthole, and the width and depth of the base keeping my ass cheeks slightly apart - it was wonderful, so good I didn't want to take it out and in fact didn't for at least 6 or 7 hours!

So, would I recommend it - YES, without any doubt or hesitation. A truly wonderful product that can be purchased for a reasonable price for endless pleasure, ideal for him or her, or even to share (although you may end up needing 2 LOL)

Available from many sources, including Amazon (some versions in the 'R' range on Amazon Prime too if you don't want to wait)

As I said at the beginning, this is my 1st ever toy review (and I have a large collection of toys to review) so please feedback what you think.

Poll results are in... am I Normal, Saucy, Dirty or plain Slutty?

After a few comments on my Twitter, I uploaded a post here (previous one to this) talking about how I had been rather horny, and ended up using a plastic drink bottle (initially new then filled with water) to satisfy my anal cravings.. and did this make me normal, saucy, dirty or slutty.

So, I posted a poll on my twitter page, pinned to the top for all my visitors to see.

It was open for 3 days, and I received just 44 responses - from nearly 18,000 followers - so not a high response rate :(

Anyway, the winner is - I am SLUTTY :) Voted by 59% of you.

Saucy          2%
Normal       16%
Dirty           23%
Slutty          59%

I have actually taken it as a compliment, I know I enjoyed myself, I know that I am gaining the confidence to be free and open about my sexual preferences and needs, open enough to talk about loving sex toys and what lube I use / like. And I have had several wonderful chats with the staff / management at my local adult store - Vibes Adult Boutique. These talks have really increased my self confidence, and trust in others - I hope to get a few new naughty photos taken in the store when I am shopping... butt plug shopping selfie sounds fun, or even just another one flashing more of my panties.

So I am happy to be slutty at times, I don't have any problems behaving in such a way in private, or in suitable public ways - i.e. on a camshow.

And dirty wasn't a high %, does this reflect that peoples views and acceptance are changing?

Anyway, have fun - enjoy being whatever you want to be and have a great day playing with your sex toys - I know I do / will!

Lena xx