Sexual Health - get tested regularly for your own, and partners, safety and have fun (UPDATED July 2026)

If you follow my on my socials (Twitter or OnlyFans, not on my ManyVids yet but will when I next get tested) you may have seen that I have been getting myself tested for sexually transmitted infections (STI's) for a while now. I have never tested positive or had a 'partner' scare.

But, I believe it is important for myself, anyone I have sex with as well as any of our future partners and the Adult / Sex Worker industry. So I did some research, thanks to Google, and after checking out a few options found SH.UK, a UK based company that offers free testing in some areas, including mine. Easy to sign up, few easy questions (be honest with your answers to make sure you get the right test(s) and away we went, superb service and I feel happier, knowing I am looking after myself, my partners and clients.

Bit if background, I am a very sexually active gay crossdresser. I do camshows, shoots and meets when I can/work allows (unfortunately being a sex worker isn't my main source of income yet, but hopefully will be one day) and will be doing more bookable meets where we can make content or just have fun, 1 in 1 or I am up for groups using me. I prefer bareback, feels so much nicer and amazing when a guy blows his load, nuts in my ass or mouth. But respect my clients wishes, so if they want to use condoms I wouldn't object. I also like casual sex, regularly visiting my local gay sauna and other public places for as much sex, cock and cum as I can get. So testing is important.

I am lucky to live in the UK, and in an area where I can get regular free sexual health testing, with an online account that provides links to verify my health status to anyone that needs to know, as often as I need to share. I go online, answer a few questions and they send me the kit, plain packaging and has full easy to understand instructions, everything you will need and a pre paid box to send it all back in. Mine usually comprises of blood and urine samples as well as oral and anal swabs. It takes me less than 10 mins to do all of the samples now, clean up n packaged ready to send to the lab. You get regular sms updates and it is such a quick and easy thing to do.

So I am tested for Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, HIV and Syphilis at the moment.

The point behind this article isn't to say I am STI free, but an ask. To get yourself tested, whether you regular have unprotected sex with multiple partners like me, or just once and are worried. 

Check out this site, and local health clinics and testing services - Google is an amazing source of info as is your local sexual health clinic. Search and find out how you can help protect the sex worker industry, us as sex workers, our clients and families... the list goes on xxxxx

Thank you for reading,

Lena xx

UPDATE

I should have added during the week, as a good gurly sex worker, I have ordered a new test kit, at present I do it every 3 months, should I do it more often? How often do you get tested as a sex worker?

Update - 13th March 2023

Ordered my latest test kit, been 3 months since my last one already.

Amazingly it arrived the following day, took me less than 10 mins to unpack and do my 4 samples - oral and anal swabs (don't get them mixed up lol), pee sample and blood. Back in the post and off for testing.

Update - July 2026

I am still using this amazing free service, every 3 months to get tested and have now added a Hep C test as well, keeping us all safe and enjoying raw sex, cream pie's n creamy mouthfuls

ME1 Gay Sauna - unplanned visit

 Taking advantage of my day finishing earlier than expected yesterday, always good when meetings finish early rather than late!

Took a trip to ME1 Gay Sauna in Rochester, Kent. I haven't had the time or opportunity to go for ages, and I love the chance to chill, relax and enjoy being naked in the hot tub, steam room and sauna as well as the play rooms, sex rooms and dark areas - cock n cum whilst relax, feel better and watch wonderful gay porn - what could be better.

I knew I didn't have much time spare, but even a couple of hours was worth the reasonable entrance fee (and they now take card as well as cash payments).

So arrived, paid n entered. Stripped down to my little pink thong panties then realised I didn't have a towel, so walked back to reception with my bare ass wiggling to get one. The towel was smaller than previously, not even going round my waist to cover up - not a problem, I love being naked there and the rule of no nudity in the coffee lounge seems to have gone. 

Since my last visit, and during the horrible times of covid, they have refurbished the rooms, with more sex benches, beds and couches, bigger and better for multi layer n person fun.

Anyway, it is def worth a visit, check out their website for pics, open hours etc.

I am a good slut, i take regular sti tests now, at least every 3 months - and as a resident of Medway I am able to use a free NHS sponsored service and get my results in a few days.

So, the important bit - did I have any fun.

I arrived about 3.30pm, and the place was quite busy, lots of guys wandering around, sounds of moaning and fucking.

I showered, lubed up my hole (free lube and condoms available all around the venue) and went in search of cock!

I sucked one guy off in the sauna, before we headed back into the showers and i got a good taste of his cock and cum, all swallowed.

Next I had some fun in the dark area, a group of guys surrounded me and after wanking a few of them i dropped to my knees n started to suck, one guy insisted on wearing a condom to get blown and after a while the taste of latex put me off so i headed down to the lounge for a free coffee.

After that i wandered around, sucked a few more cocks but although busy with guys I struggled to find a top to fuck my ass, ended up fingering myself with an ass blast as I watched porn - but that is just pot luck, as you never know what guys will be in these venues.

Anyway, it was still fun and worth the £13 to relax, suck some cocks and swallow 4 loads of cum.

Hope to be back there soon, for longer and get my ass pounded raw n hard, filled with cum and left a cum soaked n filled cock slut hehe.

Strange things that pop into a gurly mind overnight

Whilst laying in bed last night, or early this morning, i started thinking about something that i am sure will have occured to all gay, #gurly, #sissy or bi guys as well as many women.

What was it about you may ask? Well, #anal sex and always being prepared!

By prepared i don't mean having #lube available or condoms if you don't like #bareback. I mean in the cleaned out kinda way (being polite about it).

We are all, whether we like or indulge in #analsex or not, aware of what our wonderful tight back passages were intended for. And those of us that do like (or love) it up the #ass are aware that there are many options and suggested ways of preparing said passage to take a #cock and what we don't want to happen whilst being #fucked. I am sure there are lots of methods i have never seen or heard of, and that we all have our own preferred personal routine to prep for a session. Whether that's a self enema, using a douche or playing with #buttplug's and/or #dildo's or a combination of methods.

Personally, i have tried all if these on their own or a selection and it does depend on what i am planning or expecting,  time scales and other recent #anal action. In fact, i have even sat in a toilet, #lubed up my #butthole n fingers and basically fingered n semi fisted my #ass till it cleaned out, so that i could enjoy some unplanned #anal play n sex.

But, my question is - does anyone have a regular routine , that they are willing to share, that they do to ensure they are always ready to get their #ass fucked without any messy consequences (which i know can sometimes happen anyway) or rushed clear outs? If so, please comment here or #DM me on my twitter @Lena_cd if you want to remain anonymous and i will post it for you.

A trip to the sauna really can be a lot of fun

I recently took a trip to my local sauna, to be exact - my local Gay friendly sauna - ME1 in Rochester, and it was so much fun!

As i promised on my twitter feed, I am going to share that wonderful experience with you all now.

Brief summary - feeling horny (shocker) so decided to take a quick afternoon trip to the sauna, see what guys were there and what fun i could have. And boy did i get some fun. From a variety of guys i ended up taking 8 cum shots in less than 2 hours. Swallowed 2 loads, 1 facial, 1 over my back and 4 guys nutted in my ass - and god it was glorious.

Arrived, and welcomed by the ever friendly staff, even when 'new' to the sauna scene and making my 1st few visits, they always make it relaxing and fun, no pressure or judging at all - no matter how noisy you get whilst getting your ass ploughed by hot guys lol.

So, stripped of in the locker room - wish they allowed camera's as i felt like posing in my skimpy g string panties as soon as i was down to just them. Anyway, left the locker room with towel around my waist, compulsory in this area n lounge as can be seen from doorway. But, as soon as i was in the sauna proper  off it came an i walked round wiggling my freshly shaved ass n bits.

To get myself fully relaxed n ready 4 action i headed downstairs to the steam room, left my towel outside, grabbing a free lube, and headed in. There were already 2 guys in there, 1 on his back watching the porn screens, and as i became accustomed to the room i could hear him slowly wanking n moaning, which soon had me stroking my smooth ball bag n licking my lips. Needless to say i was over by his side in less than 2 mins, replacing his hand with mine on his big curved dick, and soon after my mouth was sliding round his bellend n taking his shaft into my cheeks. He smelt and tasted wonderful, and i loved the feel as i started to suck him further & deeper into my throat, slurping and sucking up n down, running tongue n teeth over every bit of his solid cock. I am guessing he liked it as he pulled my head off, moaning 'Oh god' before sitting up, allowing me to kneel, as a gurly should, n worship his cock. Happy to oblige i was soon slurping n moaning with lust, as i deep throated him, feeling him getting harder n his hands on my head pulling me into him. At this point the other guy started to stroke n finger my ass, fine by me, and i continued to blow the guy until with one deep thrust he spurted down my throat - superb start, i was so glad i decided to visit.

It was now the 2nd guys turn, but he said he was too hot n we headed out to the showers, which are open plan group showers. 2 Guys were already in there washing off, but that wasn't going to put me off. As soon as we were into the water i was on my knee's again sucking him off, and he tasted good too - and was super horny. It can only have been 2 or 3 mins max and he pulled out of my mouth, n said he wanted to give me a facial - so i knelt, head up n mouth open as he jerked himself to climax with a few strokes, and spunked all over my face - 2 loads of cum already hehe.

i wandered round, stopped in one of the upper floor play rooms and watched as 2 guys wanked off, and offered to help - sucking one guy till he groaned, said he wasn't ready to cum yet and i was gonna suck him dry, so he moved off to relax.

Time to rest my mouth, n knees lol, so i headed 1st to the sauna, then chilled off in the jacuzi, before i grabbed my towel n hit the lounge for a coffee.

Rest over i headed back upstairs, fresh lube pouch in hand. Back in the playrooms i sat down on a sofa next to a guy that was enjoying the porn, n his hand soon left his dick n stroked my leg, tickling my balls n getting me randy as fuck - i am a sucker for hard cock (pardon the pun). Surprisingly i was soon on my knee's again sucking him off n wanted more as his moaning got louder n faster, standing n turning to offer him my lubed hole at eye level - asking if he wanted to fuck me now, then sat in his lap n wiggled on his cock. This seemed to do the trick as his cock was soon probing my hole, as i sat on his bare cock balls deep in one move, that made us both groan lol. I was enjoying riding him, and it felt great, but he wanted to control and get deeper, so i stood off of him and learnt over the waist high padded table, ass cheeks spread n begging for his cock. He was soon back in me, and pounded me hard, thrusting into me as i took on the vocal role of a whore hehe, begging him to fuck me harder n cum deep in my ass, which he promptly obliged by shooting his load deep into me. Being a good gurly i surprised him buy turning and sucking his cock clean from my ass n his cum.

doing good so far, and i was happy as a slut in a cock house lol as i moved to the next door playroom.

Again, couple of guys fondling each other n enjoying the free porn, so i joined n started to stroke them both, which was welcomed - they may have been watching n knew i was the noisy cock hungry slut, but as if i cared!

Soon changed to me kneeling, surprise surprise, with one guy in my mouth n my ass high n wide in the air - begging for cock. 2nd guy was getting stroked off by the guy i was sucking, n he reached over n started to finger my soggy hole. i was loving the attention n cock, even more so when i felt a 2nd hand start to stroke my ass cheeks, slap me and then take over the fingering - with 2 fingers now up my ass. I was slurping, moaning n loving it all, getting vocal n noisy again, and then i felt that wonderful sensation - the tip of a hard cock against my butthole - and instantly pushed back wanting him inside me, and happily he was game n slipped it in, popping his tip inside before easing his thick cock into me balls deep, n started to fuck me.

the guy i was sucking off seemed to like me moaning round his cock and moving back n forth as i was spit roasted, till the guy behind pulled out. Initially i was sad, and empty, till i felt what i thought was his cock at my hole again. But it wasn't him, OMG it wasn't him - this guy felt fucking huge, and a quick look over my shoulder confirmed it was a BBC taking my white ass - yummy! He eased in, obviously a bit concerned that his big fat long cock would hurt or be to much, till he had opened me up with his monster bellend and felt how wet i was - so to my delight he grabbed my hips n gave me a good fucking, slamming into my again, n again, n again - by now i was in heaven, cock in my mouth n 2 guys tag teaming my ass, who wouldn't be happy. What i wasn't aware of then was a 3rd guy standing back watching, till the black buy pulled out n called him over for a go. My ass was sloppy as hell by now, and i was moaning, groaning n making a LOT of noise as i got fucked, as teh 3 guys took it in turns to ravish my ass, to plunder my backdoor n abuse my ring - or, make me very happy haha.

To soon, the 1st guy groaned n asked where i wanted his cum - can u guess? yep, deep in my ass was my desire - n so load number 2 shot into my anal passage. This was 2 much for the guy i was blowing as he stood n groaned he wanted to shoot over my back - which he promptly did as the black guy took his turn to fuck me and then blow his huge load into my ass, pulling out n teh 3rd guy slammed in n shot almost instantly.

I have to admit, i wanted to suck them clean but i collapsed forwards n just panted, showing what i can only imagine to be a gaping creamy butthole to one n all.

When i got my breathe back they had gone, n i stood n sat on the sofa, sticking to it with my cum covered back (oops). As i sat there i could feel the gloopy mixed up 4 loads of cum start to leak, so scooped n licked my fingers - swallowing every drop that came out.

Satisfied n happy i headed down to the showers, dressed n headed home - 1 very happy n cum filled slut - although g string panties with no panty liner don't catch much post fuck lube and/or cum lol.

It was a great couple of hours, soon to be repeated i hope n recommended for all to try.

Fun at the Gay Sauna, had myself some big black cock

Well, after a few weeks of frustrating lack of any sexual release, from wanking myself off, playing on cam for you sexy guyz n gurlz - other than a few quick chill out shows on Chaturbate - or visits to my local Gay Sauna - ME1 in Rochester, I have finally managed to get the time & opportunity to visit the sauna, and boy was it worth it.

I spent a couple of hours there late this afternoon, and they were fun filled hours - I sucked 6 cocks, swallowed 3 loads and took 2 in the ass, bareback style of course. Oh, and I got rimmed too.

I will get to the 2 black guys, with their gorgeous big black cocks, in a bit..... but first

When I got there, I showered n lubed up my butthole - getting it ready for some action (or at least I hoped to get some action!)

1st guy, in the steam room n he followed me in and started to stroke my leg, then my cock, running his hands over my shaved balls n tops of my legs. I started to stroke his cock, and soon he was nice n hard with a bulbous bellend that had a very big ridge. He knelt, sucking me off as I sat on the bench and it felt great as I fingered my ass. A few minutes in I wanted his cock, to taste him n feel him twitch in my mouth, so I moved him off and knelt in front of him, stroking his balls as I sucked him deep, he wasn't huge so deepthroat was nice n easy. I couldn't take it for long, I wanted to be fucked, I NEEDED to be fucked, he was hot in the steam so we moved to one of the private booths, wity the door closed at his request not mine - I wanted my ass open to any other guys to join in lol. I continued to suck him off to keep him hard, before kneeling n spreading my cheeks for his cock. he popped his bellend in and oh yes it made me moan out loud, getting louder as he pounded me. After bout 10 mins he stopped, n I sucked him clean, but he didn't cum yet, he wanted more n to spend more time at the sauna b4 he shot his load.

So I went on the cock hunt lol, and soon had another guy in the sauna room, in my mouth. Giving him a deep sucking till he shot his sweet salty load down my throat.

Time for the next, I went up to the top floor and laid on one of the circular benches / tables (all padded) n watched the porn as I fingered my ass. Soon had a guy come round n stick his big uncut cock into my face and as I opened up he thrust in and face fucked me, before moving round behind me and spreading my legs started to stroke his fingers down my ass crack and tease my butthole, making me twitch as I needed to be fucked again. But he had other idea's, as I found out when his tongue touched my hole, making me moan n buck my hips into his face. He gave my ass a great rimming I have to say.

At this point a black guy came round and was watching, n as I reached out my hand he moved closer so I could stroke his cock, making him drop his towel and let me see his #bbc, his gorgeous big black uncut cock/ I merrily sucked away and he then fucked my face, making me gag n slurp all over his member. I soon begged him to fuck me, and he promised he would in a few minutes as he walked off leaving me gagging for more.

With a few mins to spare I sat on a sofa n waited, stroking to the porn, and keeping myself amused by sucking off another guy quickly as he watched me - pulling him into my mouth n wanking / sucking till he exploded, quite noisily lol.

Just finished licking my lips as my black cock returned, and I was very quickly laying on the table, on my side as he fingered my ass, then slipped his cock in - gently at first, seeing how I reacted to his thick shaft - soon commenting 'man u want this cock don't you' - maybe as I was pushing my ass back onto him, trying to get more cock inside me as I moaned, n moaned, n moaned lol. We switched up so I was laying back on my front, him one leg up and in he pushed, sliding balls deep much to my satisfaction, bareback cock is sooo good. He then built up speed, slapping into me and god it felt amazing, but he wanted better purchase as we kept slipping. I, very happily, dropped to my knees on the floor and leaning forward gave him my ass, and he gave me a good hard fuck, slamming his dick in n out as his balls slapped me, before unloading up my ass with an almighty groan. At which point I sucked him clean again too, luv Ass to Mouth, especially if the guy has cum in me too.

So, whilst still on my knees another black guy joined in, and I happily bent over again as he wanted my ass. This guy was even bigger, thicker and longer, with an uncut bellend. he pushed his tip in and I knew it was going to be good as I stretched open a bit more, and moaned like a cock happy slut (which I was / am LOL). Before long, literally a few strokes in and he was doing the rifleman, pounding my horny ass, slamming his balls into me with every thrust, as I pushed back to make sure I got all of him, then he moved again, up on both feet as he fucked me senseless, OMG I was noisy and luving it. He was pounding so hard my gurly boi-clit, shaved cock hehe, and balls were slapping back n forth with a lovely sound. he gave me a good hard n long ride, pounding me into another world, saying how much I loved n wanted his cock as I pushed back onto him and what a great ass I had, what an amazing fuck I was (sounds good to me!). But, he had to blow eventually n he even asked where I wanted it, to which I said 'you choose, anywhere is fine by me - like right where u r now' so he did. He pulled on my hips, getting every bit of his big thick cock inside me and then pulsated n exploded his creamy load nto me as he grunted n moaned, thrusting again n again as he emptied his balls deep, deep inside my ass - and I loved every squirt. When he relaxed n pulled out, I enjoyed the look on his face and moan as I took his cock into my mouth n sucked / licked him clean (and hard again to lol). Of he went, a happy man.

I moved to the Jacuzzi to relax, and here sucked my last guy off, enjoying the bubbles as he squirted a load into my throat.

All in all a very fun n enjoyable afternoon - leaving me wanting more, and forgetting to ask if they rent out the sauna for an hour or so (before or after opening) to take some pics of me dressed, playing with toys n hopefully a guy or 2... fucking my ass n mouth n filling / covering me in cum.