The difference on Social Media of being gurly, trans, trap, mtf, CD etc compared with straight

 I was chilling with a friend recently, a straight male that is just a friend, not a FWB or anything else, just a good mate. 

As we were waiting for Netflix to load (in the end it didn't it stuck at 76% and would do no more, no matter what we tried!). Anyway, that isn't this story...

Whilst we were waiting he was scrolling through his Instagram, something I can't do as I was banned and my account removed for posting photos that showed a bulge in the front of my panties, no flesh just a bulge, which is I believe quite normal?

As he reached the end of his followed feed updates and heading into the 'suggested' one caught our attention, different reactions but for the same reason.

It was a picture that very, very clearly showed a woman lying down, with some fabric covering her breasts (not a lot) and that was it, naked all the way down to the very obvious clear camel toe of her pussy.

Obviously his reaction was wow, mine was more 'are they taking the piss'

We discussed, and he agreed that the standards applied to the various gender / sexuality posts on some social media, namely Facebook and Instagram, are totally unbalanced, this got worse when we looked at the rest of the pictures! A whole collection of camel toe pictures and video clips, you get even more if you search for #cameltoe - that is how difficult it would be for the moderators to check!

Anyway, later that night I set up a gmail account and created a new profile, as a straight male, and reported the photo.... outcome - not removed as we don't have time / resources to review all of the reported images. Now, I get this but do wonder how they had time to review and delete every post that I made that showed a panty bulge. I reported it again, same result... having looked today it has now been removed, but the account is still active with plenty more similar images and video clips, take a look yourself - account is Cameltoeville

Am I being overly angry and cynical, or does this yet again proof the gender / sexuality bias of Instagram?

OnlyFans - wtf is going on!

 Any of you that follow my Twitter or Instagram feeds will know that I have an OnlyFans (NOT ANYMORE - just Fansly and ManyVids, Chaturbate) page, where I have so far uploaded / posted over 7600 images and video clips - all of me whether dressed as a gurl, a slut or cheap whore, just in lingerie, naked or playing with various types of toys and objects - I like it in the ass hehe.

I offer a 21 day FREE trial for all NEW followers, and a range of discounted subscription packs for everyone (with special offers at random times to loyal followers as well).

I do live feeds, live shows as I chill, chat n usually play. And there are tens of thousands of us, that use this as a way that amateur (as well as professional) sex workers can make some extra cash at the same timeas giving the public access to us and our content.

We have made the owners of OnlyFans incredibly rich with the 20% commission they take off of everything we make, that is a LOT of money for hosting a site that has been developed a long time so repaid that investment.

Now, to make it more appealing to mainstream advertisers and income sources, they are going to ban and remove all adult sexual content, they say that this doesn't mean nudes and lingerie etc, just sexual activity - well we know how that went with Instagram don't we. I am always getting pictures removed, some re posted but most not, for sexual content when all I have posted is my bare ass or my panty bulge - there are FAR more sexual and revealing pictures allowed every hour from the so call influencers and mainstream (i.e. not gay, tranny, crossdressing types) accounts, but that is for another rant lol

So, in a nutshell they are kicking most of us off of their platform. There are becoming less and less options for us sex workers, of any kind or experience, to share our content and make a living - I bet OnlyFans made a fucking fortune during lockdown with everyone at home bored and watching / buying the content available. 

Rather than stand up to the prudes who say there shouldn't be any porn sites or adult material available on the web (have we gone full circle back to the days when the headline was that porn (wank) mags would ruin the world and destroy society?) and maybe, just maybe invest and refine the software that ensures that only age appropriate people can see the content? No, that would be to public spirited wouldn't it, as online porn is ruining everyone (nothing to do with drugs, drink and tobacco!). Shouldn't the public have a choice? Be able to choose to look at, download, watch, wank/ strum / fuck to our content if they want to? We don't make them pay or do it, it is a choice they have made, but everyone suffers for the prudes to get what they want by using big companies, media outlets and politicians to do their buidding.

What a wonderful FREE world we live in!

So, under pressure OnlyFans have back tracked and are no longer going to bann adult content. They say its due to payment providers changing what they will allow/support, or is it more likely that public opinion was against them and they realised what they stood to lose?

UPDATE - due to the constant removal of posts, blocking or large toys etc (even those designed and shaped like a huge cock) I have closed my OnlyFans

How biased and discrimanatory is social media

 No matter how much the social media platforms keep saying they are equal, support all genders, sexual preference and religions etc etc, fully behind LGBTQ / LGBTQ+, in practice its not.

I promised myself I wouldn't rant about the blatant preference and discrimination towards some gender types / sexual identifications.

Last week I tried to post 2 photos to my Instagram Account, and within seconds it was removed as it 'breached the guidlines on nudity and sexual content'.

Before i share the photo, bear i mind I have panties on, they are not sheer or seethrough in anyway, they are not so tight they clearly define and outline my boiclitty cock, which is not hard and obviously a cock. I do not promote any sexual activity, promotion or anything but myself.

I requested a review, which took several hours, and surprise surprise it was still removed for the Nudity and sexual content. I have appealed, but don't expect to get it even looked at (Instagram / Facebook say they get too many appeals to look at the all so just select a few to look at - totally fair system) as I am not a famous person or influencer with many thousands of followers. I am just me, trying to share and hopefully help others that are starting or on the journey of crossdressing, recognising that they are trans or coming out.

Going through my feed yesterday the following images popped up, they have been viewed by thousands, and have substantially more followers than me, but I am sure this has no bearing at all.

I am sure you can see, clearly see, why I am annoyed - very clear sexual content, very clear sexual organs in an aroused state and clear genitals, but both of these photos are OK - and this is a fair system?

Pardon my language, and tbh i am past caring if IG ban me again, but this is total bollocks. 

14/09/2021

Yet again Instagram, and Facebook, have shown their bias.

I logged into my IG account (www.instagram.com/lena_cdxd_bup) earlier today, and cleared my notifications,  messages and scrolled through my feed liking pictures etc, no trouble. Tried to log in again this afternoon to find that my account has been disabled, suspended and I can 'maybe' request a review in 24hours. No emails, no messages in fact no idea whatsoever as to what I have done wrong this time. Or is it just another gay persons account? There are photos of women posted all day every day that are far more revealing and sexual, barely hiding anything - tight/see through bra or bikini top, bikini or panties pulled into a tight camel toe.... leaning forwards showing full cleavage ... and more, all OK. But a gurly cd showing some bulge in her panties is to sexual and not allowed, really wtf!

Censorship at its best, in what is meant to be a country with freedom of speech and expression

 So, if you haveclicked on my IG link in any previous blog posts, tweets or any other format you will no doubt have noticed that it has been suspended, closed by the Instagram / Facebook police due to 'nude, suggestive or selling of sexual activities posts'

What did I do, I posted a picture in my underwear, it wasn't sheer, it wasn't to small to hide anything, it just showed my gurly bulge!

According to the reviewers it was pornographic content.

As many of you will have noticed, there are regularly thousands of pictures posted everyday on IG that barely cover a women's nipples let alone her entire boobs, or panties that are so small, so tight that a camel toes doesn't describe it, you can see the lips and often the clitoris poking into the material, nude shots of them sitting back to the camera or side on with arm across the boobs.

Yes these are ok, and don't get me started on the celeb pics - so what is different?

I am a gurly crossdresser, a gay guy in panties.... not a professional account, just me. 

I am infuriated that even when you appeal, they only select 'random' cases to review - how is it a fair and open system if they chose which appeals to even look at?

Don't get me wrong, I am all for protecting the youth, protecting innocent people and in fact everyone from exploitation and abuse. But that should surely mean that the protection applies to all, that everyone is treated equally and to the same standards, that is all I ask for, all i want, all i would hope for and expect.

Anyway, this rant was caused by seeing this picture on IG, been there this 2019, and by far not the worst

And yet, this pic of me was removed as to sexually graphic, not reinstated at review and appeal not actioned! And got my account banned.

Constant removal or posts from social media sites, yet others are allowed

 I said a few days ago on my IG and Twitter that I was going to post on here, to have a rant about the unfair, and seemingly targeted, removal of posts / blocking of posts on Instagram.

Yes, I get that they have updated their Terms of Use and Social responsibility policies, but it is getting stupid, and seems to be unfairly applied according to the gender / sexual group you associate with.

As you will know, I am a gay gurly crossdresser. As such I love lingerie, dressing in womens clothes, sex toys and cock - lots of toys n cock.

I recently posted a picture of my ass, and it was instantly blocked and removed as breaching the guidlines - it didn't even get posted for anyone to have reported it, so it is the IG censorship.

Yes, I can see why it 'could' appear as if I am naked, but is it offensive? Is it showing any of my shaved bits or butthole? No.

And, I am not naked, I am wearing a pair of red C String Panties, you just can't see them in this picture. And, if I had shown the panties I am certain it would have been removed anyway, as a lace c string doesn't hide much...... what do you think?

Yes, as a very gurly, very gay crossdresser I may be biased, but I have had several posts removed in the same way, I have asked for a review - no change and not ONE of them has been selected to be looked at on appeal (the way their system works is that a random selection of appeals are selected for review, not all, so it is pot luck if your appeal happens to be selected). 

And what makes me mad, makes me risk being banned by IG (again) is that there are many, many posts by women that are far more sexual, far more revealing and yet don't breach any regulations around content.

Below are a couple that I have taken screenshot's of from my feed, there are lots more to chose from, and please, please tell me if you think I am wrong - that certain groups are targeted and treated unfairly and with unequal controls and requirements.

Rant over, for now

Lena